Girls help! did i do the right thing?

No you didn't.Most likely if she wants u to forgive her she must like you too.i have been in the situation before and still am.Us girls talk about other guys just to make you jealous or to hint that if you don't make a move you know that other guys will.Just go out with her because if u don't and she finds someone else u r pretty much screwed cause all you phone conversation's are going to be about her new boyfriend.